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Your Lovable Trans Auntie asks, "Where do we go from here?"

Trans Day of Visibility 2025 felt like a heartfelt wave of connection. But keeping the flow moving is equally essential for lasting change.

Why I will not flee this tide of transphobia

One therapist reflects on a poignant conversation that ignites a powerful call for resilience, solidarity, and unwavering faith amidst growing oppression and uncertainty.

Ask Auntie: Reflecting on my trans journey toward visibility

On Trans Day of Visibility, your Loveable Trans Auntie shares her evolution from hidden fears to unapologetic pride.

Finding Hope: A conversation with trans activist Hope Giselle-Godsey

In a world that often marginalizes Black trans women, Hope Giselle-Godsey's unwavering activism speaks truth to power.

Netflix's 'Survival of the Thickest' is fiercer than ever

Michelle Buteau's Mavis Beaumont navigates heartbreak and self-love in the hit show's second season.

I am a gay Venezuelan American — not a political pawn

"Venezuelans are not a monolith," states this writer, who is alarmed how his people are being used as "pawns in political games."

Jimi Urquiaga's portraits prove drag artists have mainstream appeal

Their work showcases the power and talent of the drag community and push for more representation in mainstream media.

Sorry, haters — drag is everywhere

Drag is a natural form of self-expression permeating every corner of society, writes Drag Race alum Mrs. Kasha Davis.

Ask Auntie: Disclosing your trans identity with confidence

Is disclosure a vital trans tool to spread one's wings, or can it feel like a fragile chrysalis?

Ask Auntie: To pass or not to pass? The trans tightrope we walk

Grab a martini, darling. Let’s talk about it.

Ask Auntie: Outing your MAGA trade–is it ever okay?

Is it ever okay to out them, or does that cross a boundary? Advice from your Lovable Trans Auntie.

Creating an oasis and finding joy in my garden

Guest writer Brett Chisholm on finding peace and joy through gardening amidst trauma and chaos.

Ask Auntie: Trans folks built this community. Why are we still locked out?

In the wake of the gruesome murder of Sam Nordquist, with one of the perpetrators identified as a member of the LGBTQ+ community, your Lovable Trans Auntie unpacks the trans bias within the LGBTQ+ community.

Beyoncé finally won Album of the Year. It hardly captures her importance

Every gay man is tethered to a diva for life, finding solace, shaping identities, and empowering us in their music, writes Donté Donald.

Is it time to retire 'LGBTQ+' for a new identity?

With new challenges ahead, writer Jeff McMullen argues why now's the time to embrace a new identity for the community.

How to heal your broken queer heart

Antonio Pagliarulo advises on solace in self-care, mindfulness, and knowing you're deserving of love.

This author is audacious, unapologetic, and ready to take up space

From academia to social media, Dr. Jonathan Paul Higgins is a testament to visibility and self-love.

Ask Auntie: If Trump can rename the Gulf, why can't we rename ourselves?

Discover the power of names and the journey of self-discovery through the eyes of your Lovable Trans Auntie.

'I Kissed a Boy's Dan Harry: 'There is life after chemsex'

"Chemsex has a tight grasp on my community, and it seems to be getting tighter," Dan Harry writes in a personal essay.

My struggles with gaydar

For guest writer Krisjay Sigurdson, the agony of the gay guessing game is ever present.