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27/03/2026

Letter to Parents 27.3.26

 

Dear Parents,

 

I write this, eagerly anticipating our first ever House Dance competition which I hope will be a very joyful end to the term. I firmly believe that everyone can dance, and I’m hoping to see exuberant proof of that today. Last night, the musicians in our wonderful Spring Concert proved what great rhythm they had, and reminded me again of how subtly we make connections as we perform together, through eye contact, gestures, and a finely tuned ear.

 

This holiday I, like many parents, will be parenting children heading into the exam season, hoping that we can achieve a certain amount of domestic harmony for purposeful revision. We will be heading to one of our favourite haunts in the Lake District where there is no WiFi or mobile signal, and each year when I go, it feels even more of a culture shock. For a few precious days, we will return to being a phone-free family again, and it is likely to be an uncomfortable reminder of how deep-rooted our tech dependency has become. I am very, very excited about spending extended time with books as well as loved ones.

 

Whatever your plans or destinations, please do discuss carefully with your children the expectations and rules around phones and devices in holiday and revision time. This week’s landmark verdict in LA ruled that Instagram and YouTube are deliberately engineered to be addictive, and that these companies have been negligent in their safeguarding of the children who have used them. This means that tech giants Meta and Google face a $6m pay-out in damages to the young female victim who claimed the platforms had left her with body dysmorphia, depression, and suicidal thoughts. We do so much to protect our children from harm in the real world, but I think we can be naïve about the harms our children face when they roam online.

 

In order to keep your girls safe, please do put clear tech boundaries in place, and be curious about the content they enjoy online. Yesterday’s new government advice that limits screen time for the under-5s to one hour a day has great validity, I think, for under-15s, and is what I kept my kids to. They are now extremely grateful to me for doing so, although there were some bitter battles at the time. I urge you to stay strong in your family tech boundaries and I hope it opens up all sorts of space and time for family fun, with children newly connected to the world around them and even, sometimes, learning about feeling a bit bored. It’s then on them to then find something interesting to do.

 

Wishing you all a wonderful holiday.

 

Best wishes,

 

Cathy

 

Cathy Ellott

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