Those are the words of Jacqualine Rhoades, a single Paradise mom raising two boys, who moved to Reno “in hopes for a fresh start in life. We were not able to heal in our hometown with the wildfires that would come next to our property every year triggering that horrible 2018 fire that we survived.”
A year after the Camp Fire, she wrote a children’s book for her young kids “in hopes it would help them to freely express their emotions…. When I sat down and read to them, they opened up about their feelings of loss and things that angered and saddened them. It was at that moment I realized I did something that helped my children.”
Enlisting graphic artist M. Kungl, Rhoades published “Don’t Worry Little Ridge” ($15.95 in paperback, independently published) for children ages 4-9. In big, bright, full-color illustrations, the story begins: “Once there was a town on a little ridge. In the town lived friendly people and lots of happy children.”
But then, “one early morning there was a terrible fire. Our little ridge was lost and sad. All the happy children had to move away. All of the happy children that moved away were sad. And it’s OK to feel sad. The children that had lived on this little ridge were not alone.” (Think pictures of parental hugs.)
So there are new places to live, new friends to make. But “our little ridge will rebuild. No matter how far away we are, we will be so brave and stand so strong. Some children may have even moved back to that town on that little ridge.” Whether near or far, that’s “where our hearts belong.” (The last two pages, complete with a smiling child and the old Paradise sign, are suitable for coloring.)
When October wanes, and power shutoffs return because of dry and windy conditions, the heart skips a beat or two. A simple word of encouragement is most welcome.






